The First Session
Your first CBT session — sometimes called an assessment — is longer than subsequent ones (typically 60–90 minutes). The therapist will ask about your current difficulties, when they started, how they affect your daily life, and your goals for therapy. They will introduce the CBT model and explain how thoughts, feelings, physical sensations, and behaviours interact — and how the approach will target this cycle.
Be as honest as you can from the outset. CBT works best when you and your therapist have a clear, shared understanding of what you are working on.
The Structure of a Standard Session
Subsequent sessions typically run 50–60 minutes and follow a consistent format. Sessions usually begin with a brief check-in (how has the week been, any significant events?) and agenda-setting — you and the therapist agree on the focus for the session. This collaborative agenda-setting is itself part of the CBT approach.
The main body of the session addresses the agreed focus. This might involve reviewing a thought diary you have kept during the week, working through a specific difficult situation using a structured framework, practising a technique such as cognitive restructuring or behavioural activation, or doing a guided exercise in session. The therapist is active and engaged — asking questions, offering formulations, suggesting experiments.
Between-Session Work
CBT is genuinely different from many therapies in its emphasis on between-session work. Each session ends with an agreed task for the following week — this might be keeping a thought record, scheduling three activities you have been avoiding, or practising a relaxation technique. This is not optional extra work: it is where the real learning happens. Research consistently shows that homework completion is one of the strongest predictors of CBT outcomes.
How Sessions Progress
Early sessions are often more psychoeducational — building a shared understanding of your patterns. Middle sessions apply skills to your specific situation. Later sessions focus on consolidation, relapse prevention planning, and preparing for the end of therapy. Most people notice meaningful change by sessions four to six, though this varies considerably.
Finding a CBT Therapist
In the UK, CBT therapists should be accredited with the British Association for Behavioural and Cognitive Psychotherapies (BABCP). IAPT services (NHS Talking Therapies) provide free CBT for depression and anxiety. In Ireland, the IABCP maintains a register of accredited practitioners.





